{"id":3354,"date":"2025-10-07T10:32:35","date_gmt":"2025-10-07T10:32:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/?p=3354"},"modified":"2025-10-07T10:32:36","modified_gmt":"2025-10-07T10:32:36","slug":"diagnoza-empat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/?p=3354","title":{"rendered":"Diagn\u00f3za &#8222;empat&#8220;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Diagn\u00f3za &#8222;empat&#8220;&#8230;&#8220;bo\u017ee&#8220;, kdo t\u00edmhle disponujete, tak asi tu\u0161\u00edte o \u010dem to dnes bude. Dnes to d\u00e1m o st\u00ednu empata, \u010dili t\u00e9 nehezk\u00e9 str\u00e1nce (slunce v du\u0161i a\u017e nakonec;)), <a><\/a>jo<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nejsem psycholog, ale jsem siln\u011b pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed a pravdu hledaj\u00edc\u00ed tvor&#8230;(pravdu o sob\u011b)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Takov\u00fd empat je ob\u010das lezouc\u00ed na nerv p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm s\u00e1m sob\u011b, neb mus\u00ed v\u0161echny zachr\u00e1nit, v\u0161emu rozum\u011bt, na v\u0161echno m\u00edt n\u00e1zor, o v\u0161em si hledat detaily&#8230;.a pak b\u00fdv\u00e1 zahlcen\u00fd a \u010dasto vy\u010derpan\u00fd. Kompenzuje to t\u0159eba adrenalinov\u00fdmi sporty, velk\u00fdm pohybem, \u010d\u00edmkoliv, co mu dovol\u00ed ten p\u0159etlak &#8222;vyndat&#8220; ven.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jo, vzniklo to z p\u0159etlaku a z nutnosti m\u00edt situace a lidi pod kontrolou, proto\u017ee v\u011bt\u0161inou \u0161lo o p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed. Kdy\u017e um\u00edte detekovat, co je pot\u0159eba v t\u00e9 kter\u00e9 situaci ud\u011blat, m\u016f\u017ee v\u00e1m to zachr\u00e1nit ledacos. V prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b v\u00e1m to d\u00e1 pocit bezpe\u010d\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u010casem se takov\u00fd mal\u00fd &#8222;empat\u00edk&#8220; vycizeluje v naprosto dokonal\u00e9ho p\u0159edv\u00edda\u010de situac\u00ed i lid\u00ed..je to a\u017e d\u011bsiv\u00fd jak um\u00ed dop\u0159edu lidi odhadnout a c\u00edt\u00ed, v\u00ed..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No, byly to roky tvrd\u00e9 pr\u00e1ce pod obrovsk\u00fdm tlakem&#8230;musel(a) &#8211; Takov\u00fd empat je hn\u00e1n do neskute\u010dn\u00e9ho v\u00fdkonu st\u00e1t se n\u011bk\u00fdm jako &#8222;agentem 007&#8220;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tak a te\u010f ten message <img decoding=\"async\" height=\"16\" width=\"16\" alt=\"\ud83d\ude42\" src=\"https:\/\/static.xx.fbcdn.net\/images\/emoji.php\/v9\/t4c\/1\/16\/1f642.png\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do pr&#8230;. s takovou citlivost\u00ed pro druh\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V \u017eivot\u011b empata m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159ij\u00edt takov\u00fd zlom, cvak&#8230;.najedou naraz\u00ed na n\u011bjakou hranici a ta \u0159\u00edk\u00e1: &#8222;hej, baby&#8230;jsi zachr\u00e1n\u011bnej(\u00e1), u\u017e nemus\u00ed\u0161. Bezpe\u010d\u00ed u\u017e vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed\u0161 automaticky, u\u017e se m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 vypnout z m\u00f3du &#8222;nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9 drama&#8220;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Uf&#8230;.\u0159ach, bum&#8230;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A v tuhle chv\u00edli se d\u011bje mal\u00fd velk\u00fd z\u00e1zrak pro vys\u00edlenou empatickou bytost: za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 si pouze u\u017e\u00edvat, \u017ee JE&#8230;.nemus\u00ed v\u016fbec nic&#8230;je chod\u00edc\u00ed otev\u0159enost, citlivost, cokoliv i voby\u010dejnej \u010dlov\u011bk a u\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 si \u017eivot kolem sebe. Vyu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 empatii pro SEBE&#8230;tvo\u0159\u00ed prostor, raduje se z kr\u00e1sn\u00fdch barev, v\u016fn\u00ed, opraven\u00e9 elektriky, nov\u00fdch z\u00e1clon, sv\u00edt\u00edc\u00edho auta, blikaj\u00edc\u00edch sv\u011bt\u00fdlek&#8230;.cokoliv&#8230;c\u00edt\u00ed \u017divot &#8211; ten sv\u016fj i t\u011bch druh\u00fdch, ale u\u017e nezachra\u0148uje&#8230;nen\u00ed t\u0159eba..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u00ed, \u017ee \u017divot se postar\u00e1 s\u00e1m&#8230;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Empat je tu najednou pro sebe i pro druh\u00e9 jako svobodn\u00fd prostor, kter\u00fd umo\u017e\u0148uje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jo a pozor, j\u00e1 pov\u00eddav\u00fd typ, jsem zjistila, \u017ee i ml\u010det m\u016f\u017eu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ale st\u00e1le pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1m p\u00edsmenka i slova pro radost, t\u011b\u0161\u00ed m\u011b to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u011b\u0161\u00ed m\u011b, r\u00e1da v\u00e1s v\u0161echny pozn\u00e1v\u00e1m. U\u017e m\u011b to nezahlcuje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u011bkdy na vid\u011bnou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u011bkuji<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Howgh<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lada<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Diagn\u00f3za &#8222;empat&#8220;&#8230;&#8220;bo\u017ee&#8220;, kdo t\u00edmhle disponujete, tak asi tu\u0161\u00edte o \u010dem to dnes bude. Dnes to d\u00e1m o st\u00ednu empata, \u010dili t\u00e9 nehezk\u00e9 str\u00e1nce (slunce v du\u0161i a\u017e nakonec;)), jo Nejsem psycholog, ale jsem siln\u011b pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed a pravdu hledaj\u00edc\u00ed tvor&#8230;(pravdu o sob\u011b) Takov\u00fd empat je ob\u010das lezouc\u00ed na nerv p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm s\u00e1m sob\u011b, neb mus\u00ed v\u0161echny zachr\u00e1nit, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3355,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3354","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3354","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3354"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3354\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3356,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3354\/revisions\/3356"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3355"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3354"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3354"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3354"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}