{"id":3349,"date":"2025-09-23T08:02:50","date_gmt":"2025-09-23T08:02:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/?p=3349"},"modified":"2025-09-23T08:02:52","modified_gmt":"2025-09-23T08:02:52","slug":"byt-mama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/?p=3349","title":{"rendered":"B\u00fdt m\u00e1ma…"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

B\u00fdt m\u00e1mou je sakra v\u00fdzva…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u00e1 si p\u0159inesla od sv\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f hlavn\u011b p\u0159edstavy jak to „d\u011blat nebudu“ (to asi zn\u00e1te, \u017ee?)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dnes jsem sama sob\u011b nesm\u00edrn\u011b vd\u011b\u010dn\u00e1, \u017ee jsem selh\u00e1vala jako \u00fa\u017easn\u00e1 matka, co vede sv\u00e9 d\u011bti „spr\u00e1vn\u011b“, \u017ee jsem nedok\u00e1zala v o\u010d\u00edch druh\u00fdch b\u00fdt v jejich pojmu slova „d\u016fsledn\u00e1“, pevn\u011b dr\u017e\u00edc\u00ed hranice, p\u0159esn\u011b d\u00e1vkuj\u00edc\u00ed odm\u011bnu a trest…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jsem sama sob\u011b vd\u011b\u010dn\u00e1 za sv\u00e9 vnit\u0159n\u00ed nastaven\u00ed: ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b je pro m\u011b par\u0165\u00e1k.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mo\u017en\u00e1 to n\u011bkdo pot\u0159ebuje \u010d\u00edst.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00fdm syn\u016fm je dnes 15 a 19, mate\u0159stv\u00ed je „over“. Pupe\u010dn\u00ed \u0161\u0148\u016fra p\u0159e\u0161miknut\u00e1. Kluci maj\u00ed sv\u00e9 hol\u010di\u010d\u00ed velk\u00e9 l\u00e1sky a sv\u016fj sv\u011bt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nicm\u00e9n\u011b j\u00e1 z\u016fstala jejich par\u0165\u00e1k. M\u00e1me mezi sebou d\u016fv\u011bru. Oni v\u011bd\u00ed, \u017ee nejsem dokonal\u00e1, \u017ee selh\u00e1v\u00e1m, \u017ee si ob\u010das nev\u00edm rady, \u017ee d\u011bl\u00e1m chyby, ale m\u00e1m hodn\u011b odvahy to pojmenovat nahlas a nach\u00e1zet \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed. Neb\u00e1t se zm\u011bn a \u0159\u00edct: „aha tudy ne, d\u011bcka, mus\u00edme jinak“<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Moji kluci nikdy nem\u011bli v\u0161echno skv\u011ble p\u0159ipraven\u00e9 do \u0161koly, m\u011bli spoustu pozn\u00e1mek o zapom\u00edn\u00e1n\u00ed, nebyli v\u017edycky nau\u010den\u00ed na p\u00edsemky, nestali se skv\u011bl\u00fdm \u010dlenem sportovn\u00edho t\u00fdmu. Hodnocen\u00ed na vysv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed i se \u010dty\u0159kama, ob\u010das…..dostate\u010dn\u00e9, ne?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jako m\u00e1ma se nem\u016f\u017eu py\u0161nit \u00fa\u017easn\u00fdmi ohodnocen\u00fdmi v\u00fdsledky sv\u00fdch syn\u016f „tam zven\u010d\u00ed“….ale uvnit\u0159 sebe c\u00edt\u00edm obrovsk\u00fd vd\u011bk a l\u00e1sku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Obh\u00e1jila jsem sv\u016fj autentick\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup k m\u00fdm syn\u016fm ( a \u017ee to bylo ob\u010das versus vn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed sv\u011bt ku…va t\u011b\u017ek\u00fd)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kluci si dovol\u00ed p\u0159ede mnou bre\u010det, dovol\u00ed c\u00edtit, \u017ee nem\u016f\u017eou, ale taky um\u00ed zabrat, kdy\u017e maj\u00ed svou vlastn\u00ed vnit\u0159n\u00ed motivaci. Jsme t\u00fdm \"\ud83d\ude42\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nep\u00ed\u0161u to, abych se chlubila, ale proto\u017ee je n\u011bkter\u00e1 z v\u00e1s, mo\u017en\u00e1 na sebe p\u0159\u00edsn\u00e1 a m\u00e1 na sebe vysok\u00e9 po\u017eadavky, co se t\u00fdk\u00e1 mate\u0159stv\u00ed a tak t\u0159eba tohle pohlad\u00ed, \u017ee b\u00fdt Laskav\u00e1 sama k sob\u011b a pota\u017emo ke sv\u00fdm d\u011btem, ukazovat pocity a emoce ( s oby\u010dejn\u00fdmi p\u0159irozen\u00fdmi hranicemi, kter\u00e9 m\u011b dosp\u011blou udr\u017euj\u00ed v pohod\u011b) je \u00fapln\u011b to nejv\u00edc. Obejmout a \u0159\u00edct: „j\u00e1 v\u00edm“<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Howgh<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

B\u00fdt m\u00e1mou je sakra v\u00fdzva… J\u00e1 si p\u0159inesla od sv\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f hlavn\u011b p\u0159edstavy jak to „d\u011blat nebudu“ (to asi zn\u00e1te, \u017ee?) Dnes jsem sama sob\u011b nesm\u00edrn\u011b vd\u011b\u010dn\u00e1, \u017ee jsem selh\u00e1vala jako \u00fa\u017easn\u00e1 matka, co vede sv\u00e9 d\u011bti „spr\u00e1vn\u011b“, \u017ee jsem nedok\u00e1zala v o\u010d\u00edch druh\u00fdch b\u00fdt v jejich pojmu slova „d\u016fsledn\u00e1“, pevn\u011b dr\u017e\u00edc\u00ed hranice, p\u0159esn\u011b d\u00e1vkuj\u00edc\u00ed […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3350,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3349","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3349","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3349"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3349\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3351,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3349\/revisions\/3351"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3350"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3349"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3349"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3349"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}