Jak\u00fd to tady, v m\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b, m\u00e1 vlastn\u011b smysl? Jak\u00fd to m\u00e1 m\u00edt v\u00fdsledek? Kam to cel\u00e9 vlastn\u011b vede? M\u00e1 m\u016fj \u017eivot vlastn\u011b hodnotu, kdy\u017e nejsem mistr nebo odborn\u00edk v tom \u010di onom, kdy\u017e nem\u00e1m vybudovanou firmu, skv\u011blou \u017eenu, mu\u017ee, vlastn\u00ed rodinu a po\u0159\u00e1dn\u00fd f\u00e1ro?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
To, co m\u011b nau\u010dil a „\u0159ekl“ pan \u017divot….<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hodnota je to, co ty pova\u017euje\u0161 za hodnotu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tvoje nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed hodnota a sou\u010dasn\u011b, paradoxn\u011b i v\u00fdzva, je tam, kde c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161 nejv\u00edc t\u011b\u017ek\u00fdch emoc\u00ed, pocit\u016f….tam, kde c\u00edt\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee by to m\u011blo b\u00fdt jinak, cht\u011bl(a) bys to jinak, tou\u017e\u00ed\u0161 vlastn\u011b po n\u011b\u010dem jin\u00e9m…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u0159esn\u011b v tomhle bahnu, se skr\u00fdv\u00e1 smysl na\u0161eho \u017eivota a v\u017edycky jsou indik\u00e1torem pocity a emoce…ty jsou impulzem cht\u00edt to m\u00edt „jinak“…jsou spou\u0161t\u011b\u010dem touhy a nekon\u010d\u00edc\u00edch my\u0161lenek…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
J\u00e1 se paradoxn\u011b narodila do rodiny, kde v\u016fbec, ale ani trochu nefungovaly vztahy, v\u016fbec \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd, ani ten z\u00e1kladn\u00ed…. a tak, te\u010f u\u017e, bez p\u0159ekvapen\u00ed, st\u00e1le buduju vztahy, propojuju, stmeluju…kam vlezu, tam na prvn\u00ed dobrou vn\u00edm\u00e1m vztahy, z ka\u017ed\u00e9 cesty, z ka\u017ed\u00e9ho zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed, z ka\u017ed\u00e9 skupiny, si v\u017edycky „odnesu“ n\u011bjak\u00fd vztah (nemysl\u00edm partnersk\u00fd).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Je to siln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e j\u00e1…opravdu c\u00edt\u00edm, \u017ee m\u011b „n\u011bco“ vede, v\u016fbec nad t\u00edm nem\u00e1m kontrolu…skrze tyhle vztahy se neskute\u010dn\u011b prom\u011b\u0148uju…buduju si v nich bezpe\u010d\u00ed, pocit p\u0159ijet\u00ed, \u017ee n\u011bkam pat\u0159\u00edm…ne n\u00e1hodou vedu skupiny…ne n\u00e1hodou m\u00e1m v\u00edc jak jedno d\u00edt\u011b (i kdy\u017e v r\u00e1mci m\u00e9ho man\u017eelstv\u00ed to byla vlastn\u011b blbost….ale v r\u00e1mci m\u00e9ho smyslu \u017eivota „jasnost“), ne n\u00e1hodou m\u00e1m vlastn\u011b docela hodn\u011b nevlastn\u00edch sourozenc\u016f, se kter\u00fdmi jsem ale nevyr\u016fstala…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne n\u00e1hodou jsem se od pr\u00e1ce s jednotlivcema, posunula k pr\u00e1ci s v\u011bt\u0161\u00edm po\u010dtem lid\u00ed, za\u010dala jsem \u017eenama a te\u010f u\u017e se m\u016f\u017eu za\u010d\u00edt pohybovat i mezi mu\u017ei. Ne n\u00e1hodou m\u011b kamar\u00e1d p\u0159ivedl do v\u00fdrobn\u00ed firmy, kde prost\u011b zase buduju vztahy \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Navazuju zp\u00e1tky vztahy s ob\u011bma biologick\u00fdmi \u010d\u00e1stmi sv\u00e9 ko\u0159enov\u00e9 rodiny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u0161echno cht\u011blo \u010das…..nejd\u0159\u00edv postavit sebe…byla jsem \u00fapln\u011b zano\u0159en\u00e1 do bahna „vl\u010dice samot\u00e1\u0159ky“…ale jak zn\u00e1mo vlci vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed velmi pevn\u00e9 skupiny….<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A co m\u00e1 b\u00fdt dne\u0161n\u00edm vzkazem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pokud si d\u00e1v\u00e1te ot\u00e1zky jak\u00e9 j\u00e1 d\u00e1v\u00e1m na za\u010d\u00e1tku, pod\u00edvejte se zp\u011btn\u011b, kde v\u00e1m \u017divot „jakoby vzal“….a ud\u011blejte to jina\u010d\u00ed pro SEBE, n\u011bkdy je to t\u011b\u017eko, a tak to zkuste jako byste byl(a) svoje „s\u00e9gra“, „br\u00e1cha“, nejlep\u0161\u00ed kamar\u00e1dka (kamar\u00e1d)…pro n\u011bkoho koho Milujete, a nebo chcete Milovat\u2764\ufe0f<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Jak\u00fd to tady, v m\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b, m\u00e1 vlastn\u011b smysl? Jak\u00fd to m\u00e1 m\u00edt v\u00fdsledek? Kam to cel\u00e9 vlastn\u011b vede? M\u00e1 m\u016fj \u017eivot vlastn\u011b hodnotu, kdy\u017e nejsem mistr nebo odborn\u00edk v tom \u010di onom, kdy\u017e nem\u00e1m vybudovanou firmu, skv\u011blou \u017eenu, mu\u017ee, vlastn\u00ed rodinu a po\u0159\u00e1dn\u00fd f\u00e1ro? To, co m\u011b nau\u010dil a „\u0159ekl“ pan \u017divot…. Hodnota je […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2985,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2984","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2984","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2984"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2984\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2986,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2984\/revisions\/2986"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2985"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2984"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2984"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2984"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}