{"id":2953,"date":"2024-05-29T06:04:40","date_gmt":"2024-05-29T06:04:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/?p=2953"},"modified":"2024-05-29T06:04:41","modified_gmt":"2024-05-29T06:04:41","slug":"muzske-versus-zenske","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/?p=2953","title":{"rendered":"Mu\u017esk\u00e9 versus \u017eensk\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Kdy\u017e jsem se za\u010dala st\u00e1vat matkou, nikdy m\u011b nenapadlo, \u017ee se mi narod\u00ed dva kluci a ne proto abych mohla b\u00fdt pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed maminkou a dosytit si hlavn\u011b tu p\u00e9\u010di, po kter\u00e9 jsem tou\u017eila j\u00e1 jako d\u00edt\u011b (to samoz\u0159ejm\u011b prob\u00edhalo a prob\u00edh\u00e1) ale hlavn\u011b, aby mi ud\u011blali mnohem v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed jasno v t\u00e9 odli\u0161nosti „b\u00fdt v mu\u017esk\u00e9m t\u011ble“ a b\u00fdt v „\u017eensk\u00e9m t\u011ble“….pota\u017emo ten rozd\u00edl p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161len\u00ed, vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed \u017eivota….jdeme vlastn\u011b k tomu sam\u00e9mu….ale zcela odli\u0161nou cestou<\/p>\n\n\n\n

U\u010d\u00ed m\u011b ( a j\u00e1 je taky, samoz\u0159ejm\u011b), <\/a>nelp\u011bt na slovech, kter\u00e1 mus\u00ed b\u00fdt odk\u00fdvan\u00e1…ka\u017ed\u00fd jednu skute\u010dnost nazveme jinak, ale vlastn\u011b chceme vyj\u00e1d\u0159it tot\u00e9\u017e…a tak u n\u00e1s vznikaj\u00ed (velmi kr\u00e1tk\u00e9) filozofick\u00e9 chvilky, kdy jim p\u0159ibli\u017euju sv\u016fj pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed sv\u011bt a oni maj\u00ed tendenci nad t\u00edm jakoby kroutit hlavou a j\u00e1 (d\u00edky u\u017e sv\u00e9mu od\u017eit\u00e9mu :)) se zkou\u0161\u00edm navn\u00edmat, jak to vyj\u00e1d\u0159it, aby m\u011b „sly\u0161eli“, „vn\u00edmali“, m\u011bli chu\u0165 se mnou o tom v\u0161em mluvit…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Zjistila jsem, \u017ee d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je, abych j\u00e1 byla \u00fapln\u011b v pohod\u011b s t\u00edm jak oni \u017eijou, co je pro n\u011b priorita, co je pro n\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, abych vyslala „\u0161\u00edp“: P\u0158IJ\u00cdM\u00c1M …. a v rozhovoru si st\u00e1le udr\u017eovala tuhle p\u0159ij\u00edmaj\u00edc\u00ed „energii“, sn\u00e1z m\u011b pak vn\u00edmaj\u00ed….\u010dasto za\u0159azuju slova: rozum\u00edm, ch\u00e1pu, to zn\u00e1m, jo, tohle je fakt….a pak za\u0159ad\u00edm sv\u016fj \u00fahel pohledu…\u010dasto dan\u00fd do konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed situace…nevychov\u00e1v\u00e1m, ne\u0159\u00edk\u00e1m, co je spr\u00e1vn\u011b, jenom sd\u00edl\u00edm zku\u0161enosti a d\u011bl\u00e1m prostor pro nesouhlas a st\u00e1le udr\u017euju p\u0159\u00edtomnost „p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1m“, \u017ee tak to m\u00e1\u0161.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A jsem st\u00e1le velkorysej\u0161\u00ed: po\u0159\u00e1dek vid\u00ed jinak, p\u0159\u00edstup ke sv\u00e9mu t\u011blu maj\u00ed jin\u00fd, jejich prioritou je „boj“ , „s\u00edla“, „racio“…..nicm\u00e9n\u011b, tam hluboko uvnit\u0159 je touha b\u00fdt p\u0159ijat\u00fd a milovan\u00fd…Howgh….<\/p>\n\n\n\n

( A jenom j\u00e1 v\u00edm, \u017ee hledat cestu k mu\u017e\u016fm jako l\u00e1skypln\u00fdm stvo\u0159en\u00edm byla pro m\u011b v\u00fdzva…ale u\u017e to vid\u00edm…d\u00edky, v\u0161ichni „kluci“ kolem m\u011b :)) a d\u00edky sv\u00e9 odvaze :))<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Foto: Ad\u00e9la Tauscherov\u00e1<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kdy\u017e jsem se za\u010dala st\u00e1vat matkou, nikdy m\u011b nenapadlo, \u017ee se mi narod\u00ed dva kluci a ne proto abych mohla b\u00fdt pe\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed maminkou a dosytit si hlavn\u011b tu p\u00e9\u010di, po kter\u00e9 jsem tou\u017eila j\u00e1 jako d\u00edt\u011b (to samoz\u0159ejm\u011b prob\u00edhalo a prob\u00edh\u00e1) ale hlavn\u011b, aby mi ud\u011blali mnohem v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed jasno v t\u00e9 odli\u0161nosti „b\u00fdt v mu\u017esk\u00e9m […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2954,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2953","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2953","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2953"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2953\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2955,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2953\/revisions\/2955"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2954"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2953"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2953"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2953"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}