{"id":2858,"date":"2024-04-07T07:40:27","date_gmt":"2024-04-07T07:40:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/?p=2858"},"modified":"2024-04-07T07:45:52","modified_gmt":"2024-04-07T07:45:52","slug":"velike-konce-velikonoce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/?p=2858","title":{"rendered":"Velik\u00e9 konce (Velikonoce)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Te\u010f o Veli konc\u00edch na m\u011b dost siln\u011b \u0165uk\u00e1 tohle t\u00e9ma:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u017edycky jsem cht\u011bla b\u00fdt t\u00e1tova milovan\u00e1 hol\u010di\u010dka, cht\u011bla jsem, aby m\u011b s\u00e1m od sebe obejmul, dal pusu, \u0159ekl mi n\u011bco mil\u00fdho….t\u00e1ta byl nesm\u00edrn\u011b hodnej….pak p\u0159i\u0161li nov\u00ed partne\u0159i m\u00e9 mamky a j\u00e1 za\u017eila chlad v podob\u011b nechutn\u00fd agrese…a tak suma sum\u00e1rum, jsem se nau\u010dila dokazovat, kdo jsem a \u017ee stoj\u00edm za to, aby m\u011b m\u011bl n\u011bkdo, nejl\u00e9pe mu\u017e r\u00e1d, a tak jsem vlastn\u011b moc nepou\u017e\u00edvala svou p\u0159irozenost, ale <\/a>sp\u00ed\u0161 neust\u00e1le naci\u0165ovala, co je pro mu\u017ee to spr\u00e1vn\u00e9, abych byla milovan\u00e1…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No, mod\u0159\u00ed v\u011bd\u00ed…..<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Suma sum\u00e1rum, konec smutn\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu, kter\u00fd byl pouze studijn\u00edm materi\u00e1lem \"\ud83d\ude42\"…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Te\u010f ve sv\u00fdch (za rok) pades\u00e1ti, kone\u010dn\u011b za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1m ch\u00e1pat v \u010dem je moje „s\u00edla“…ne v dokazov\u00e1n\u00ed a vyrovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed se mu\u017e\u016fm, a ani ne, \u017ee s nimi budu bojovat t\u00edm, \u017ee budu vyzdvihovat, \u017ee moje citlivost, jemnost a schopnost p\u00e9\u010de je n\u011b\u010d\u00edm v\u00edc..<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jsme fakt jinak stvo\u0159en\u00ed…j\u00e1 v\u00edm, \u017ee se to \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, ale m\u011b to kone\u010dn\u011b n\u011bkde doch\u00e1z\u00ed…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mu\u017ei maj\u00ed s\u00edlu fyzickou, tah na branku, neru\u0161\u00ed je moc emo\u010dn\u00ed v\u00fdkyvy, um\u00ed se hodn\u011b koncentrovat, jejich v\u00fdkon se p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 b\u011bhem m\u011bs\u00edce nem\u011bn\u00ed, um\u00ed jasn\u011b vid\u011bt jak\u00e1 akce vede ke spln\u011bn\u00ed c\u00edle…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u017dena m\u00e1 dar harmonizovat prost\u0159ed\u00ed, vytv\u00e1\u0159et l\u00e1skypln\u00e9 vztahy, vyc\u00edtit, co kdo pot\u0159ebuje, podr\u017eet svou n\u011bhou, citlivost\u00ed, jej\u00ed c\u00edl je prost\u011b b\u00fdt „kr\u00e1sn\u00e1 zevnit\u0159“, ka\u017ed\u00fd prostor ,ve kter\u00e9m se ocit\u00e1 jakoby „postav\u00ed“ ,vylad\u00ed a v n\u011bm i p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00e9 osoby…ale nen\u00ed to akce pl\u00e1novan\u00e1, s jasn\u00fdmi kroky, je \u0159\u00edzen\u00e1 citem a intuic\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A tak…m\u016fj utopismus:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

…..jednou zavl\u00e1dne harmonie mezi \u017eenami a mu\u017ei (v\u00edc pohlav\u00ed na chaos nen\u00ed t\u0159eba) a\u017e mu\u017ei p\u0159ijmou \u017eenu, \u017ee je b\u011bhem m\u011bs\u00edce, t\u00fddne i dne prom\u011bnliv\u00e1, \u017ee se \u0159\u00edd\u00ed citem a nem\u00e1 tah na branku v pl\u00e1nech a nezvl\u00e1dne stejn\u00fd v\u00fdkon jako on, nikdy nevychov\u00e1v\u00e1 tresty a podm\u00ednkami a mu\u017e ji za to bude milovat, proto\u017ee mu vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed L\u00e1skyplnou oporu a rozhodn\u011b s n\u00edm nikdy nebude sout\u011b\u017eit, respektuje sebe a t\u00edm i jeho..<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A \u017eena nebude cht\u00edt po mu\u017ei, aby ji empaticky navn\u00edm\u00e1val, sd\u00edlel s n\u00ed jej\u00ed boly a nech\u00e1 mu\u017ee j\u00edt za jeho c\u00edlem, s jeho p\u0159esn\u00fdmi pl\u00e1ny, dr\u017een\u00edm laskav\u00e9ho \u0159\u00e1du, ob\u010dasn\u00fdm tot\u00e1ln\u00edm vypnut\u00edm do „krabice nic“ a nech\u00e1 se obalit bezpe\u010d\u00edm, kter\u00e9 vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed jeho jasnost kam jde…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Je pitomost dokazovat, \u017ee zvl\u00e1dnu to sam\u00e9, co mu\u017ea a cht\u00edt vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed plat ne\u017e mu\u017e nebo stejn\u00fd. Pro\u010d? Mu\u017ei lov\u00ed mamuty, pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed zajistit rodinu, kdy\u017e tohle mu\u017e m\u00e1, c\u00edt\u00ed se siln\u00fd a d\u011bl\u00e1 mu dob\u0159e, \u017ee rodinu zajist\u00ed, \u017ee je ochr\u00e1nce…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

My \u017eeny m\u00edsto tvrd\u00e9 pr\u00e1ce a dokazov\u00e1n\u00ed a snahy m\u00edt stejn\u00fd v\u00fdkon jako mu\u017e, m\u016f\u017eeme v\u00edc podporovat svou jemnost, m\u00e1me \u010das na sd\u00edlen\u00ed a kamar\u00e1dky, zkr\u00e1\u0161lov\u00e1n\u00ed prostoru kolem n\u00e1s a vy\u017eivov\u00e1n\u00ed sama sebe…\u00fapln\u011b to vid\u00edm….\"\ud83d\ude42\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n

( jsem u\u017e dlouho m\u00e1ma i t\u00e1ta v jednom a tak jasn\u011b c\u00edt\u00edm, co je mu\u017esk\u00e1 a co \u017eensk\u00e1 \u010d\u00e1st, kooperace by byla lab\u00fa\u017eo)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Konec zpr\u00e1v z „vyLa\u010fuj\u00edc\u00edho“ sv\u011bta…<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Te\u010f o Veli konc\u00edch na m\u011b dost siln\u011b \u0165uk\u00e1 tohle t\u00e9ma: V\u017edycky jsem cht\u011bla b\u00fdt t\u00e1tova milovan\u00e1 hol\u010di\u010dka, cht\u011bla jsem, aby m\u011b s\u00e1m od sebe obejmul, dal pusu, \u0159ekl mi n\u011bco mil\u00fdho….t\u00e1ta byl nesm\u00edrn\u011b hodnej….pak p\u0159i\u0161li nov\u00ed partne\u0159i m\u00e9 mamky a j\u00e1 za\u017eila chlad v podob\u011b nechutn\u00fd agrese…a tak suma sum\u00e1rum, jsem se nau\u010dila dokazovat, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2859,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2858","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2858","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2858"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2858\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2864,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2858\/revisions\/2864"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2859"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2858"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2858"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2858"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}