{"id":2034,"date":"2023-06-30T09:04:09","date_gmt":"2023-06-30T08:04:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/?p=2034"},"modified":"2023-06-30T09:04:09","modified_gmt":"2023-06-30T08:04:09","slug":"naucila-jsem-se-byt-mirotvurce-ale-kdo-jsem-opravdu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/?p=2034","title":{"rendered":"Nau\u010dila jsem se b\u00fdt m\u00edrotv\u016frce, ale kdo jsem opravdu?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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Jsem m\u00edrotv\u016frce. Za ka\u017edou cenu se chci na v\u0161em domluvit „v klidu“ a “ se vz\u00e1jemn\u00fdm pochopen\u00edm“<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nicm\u00e9n\u011b jsem vyr\u016fstala v prost\u0159ed\u00ed, kdy k pochopen\u00ed a m\u00edru v\u00edcem\u00e9n\u011b nedoch\u00e1zelo. T\u00edm se ve mn\u011b vytvo\u0159il program: ud\u011blej v\u0161echno proto, a\u0165 se to zm\u011bn\u00ed. Tys to zavinila (p\u0159irozen\u011b se ve mn\u011b vytvo\u0159il pocit, \u017ee je to moje vina, proto\u017ee se to d\u011blo v m\u00e9 bezprost\u0159edn\u00ed bl\u00edzkosti, poka\u017ed\u00e9…..tak\u017ee „logicky“ moje \u0161patnost)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To „ud\u011blej v\u0161echno, jenom, a\u0165 je klid“, <\/a>vedlo k tomu, \u017ee jsem \u00fapln\u011b zcela potla\u010dovala jak\u00e1 jsem, nebyl na to prostor, bylo t\u0159eba naj\u00edt cokoli, co p\u0159inese klid…b\u00fdt n\u00e1pomocn\u00e1, zmizet, nemluvit, omluvit se (i kdy\u017e nev\u00edte pro\u010d), b\u00fdt veselej\u0161\u00ed, b\u00fdt v\u00edc samostatn\u00e1, nic necht\u00edt, pochopit, v\u017edycky pochopit toho druh\u00e9ho…..a\u017e dnes po t\u011bch letech jsem schopn\u00e1 to vid\u011bt v cel\u00e9 Kr\u00e1se (zr\u016fdnosti)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00fdm z\u00e1m\u011brem je, podpo\u0159it ka\u017ed\u00e9ho z v\u00e1s, kdo to zn\u00e1te taky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Je\u0161t\u011b i v hlubok\u00e9 dosp\u011blosti d\u00e1l potk\u00e1v\u00e1me lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed n\u00e1m navod\u00ed zn\u00e1mou situaci: “ tvoje p\u0159\u00edtomnost mi zp\u016fsobila to a to“…kdy\u017e jsme je\u0161t\u011b v pocitu, \u017ee “ my to mus\u00edme napravit“, m\u016f\u017ee se otev\u0159\u00edt p\u0159\u00edliv spousty pocit\u016f i fyzick\u00fdch a rozjede se zn\u00e1m\u00fd koloto\u010d, ze kter\u00e9ho ale vyjdeme jako „zdecimovan\u00ed pitomci“.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jakou jsem na\u0161la cestu ven? P\u0159es pr\u00e1ci s t\u011blem a uzn\u00e1n\u00ed sv\u00fdch pocit\u016f, p\u0159es hled\u00e1n\u00ed, kde se „narodily“, v jak\u00e9 situace. Z pochopen\u00ed, \u017ee je to star\u00e9 zran\u011bn\u00ed, \u017ee i ti, co mi tu situaci zprost\u0159edkovali, byli zran\u011bn\u00ed a nezral\u00ed…a d\u00e1l s t\u00edm pracuju v ka\u017ed\u00e9 podobn\u00e9 situaci..<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. uv\u011bdom\u00edm si, \u017ee to nezp\u016fsobuju j\u00e1<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2.prod\u00fdch\u00e1m si pocity a emoce<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m si sama sob\u011b, co laskav\u00e9ho pot\u0159ebuju sly\u0161et<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. vyj\u00e1d\u0159\u00edm sv\u016fj opravdov\u00fd postoj a jak to vid\u00edm j\u00e1<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. nezachra\u0148uju nikoho, jsem ve sv\u00e9 pravd\u011b<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. pokud je to t\u0159eba, p\u0159eru\u0161\u00edm kontakt….<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ka\u017ed\u00e1 podobn\u00e1 situace mi dovoluje umen\u0161it automatick\u00fd program a situace se mi v \u017eivot\u011b d\u011bje m\u00e9n\u011b \u010dasto, mo\u017en\u00e1 i \u010dasem vymiz\u00ed…ale nic se ned\u011bje, \u017ee se to d\u00e1l d\u011bje \"\ud83d\ude42\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159eji l\u00e1skypln\u00e9 vztahy (hlavn\u011b ten k sob\u011b )<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Jsem m\u00edrotv\u016frce. Za ka\u017edou cenu se chci na v\u0161em domluvit „v klidu“ a “ se vz\u00e1jemn\u00fdm pochopen\u00edm“ Nicm\u00e9n\u011b jsem vyr\u016fstala v prost\u0159ed\u00ed, kdy k pochopen\u00ed a m\u00edru v\u00edcem\u00e9n\u011b nedoch\u00e1zelo. T\u00edm se ve mn\u011b vytvo\u0159il program: ud\u011blej v\u0161echno proto, a\u0165 se to zm\u011bn\u00ed. Tys to zavinila (p\u0159irozen\u011b se ve mn\u011b vytvo\u0159il pocit, \u017ee je to moje […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2036,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2034","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nezarazene"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2034","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2034"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2034\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2036"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2034"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2034"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ladadudova.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2034"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}